Coming from a Nice Guy & what i feel. You guys should read the whole thing
Im not really one to use cell phones. i hate long conversations on it and texting all day and night, if u need me call me or text me to make a plan, i prefer to see you in person, thats just how i do things. I prefer to see body language, making you really laugh and seeing you smile, nothing is better than that. If the phone is what you want, then your still stuck in a high school mindset because thats what they do in high school, they talk on the phone all night and cupcake. Im not that type of guy, im busy i got things to do and alone time means alone time not you bombing my phone, wheres the trust gone in this day and age where everyone wants to check up on someone every single minute of the day, like damm where the hell is all the privacy gone. If you trust someone and REALLY TRUST someone, u dont need to check up on them every damm minute of the day and need to know exactly where they going to be at, at all times. I trust you enough to not hit you up every minute of the hour when your out with your girlfriends, so why u got to text me every minute. The people closes to me know exactly how i am already, when im out with my boys, its just my boys, i dont holla at girls because its my time to get away from all that and have fun with my friends. Girls at this day and age dont know what trust is and are too dependent on their significant other that they always need to be in a relationship to feel wanted when they arent ready. I think you should only be in a relationship when you are truly not ready, not want or need to be in it. If your not happy with yourself or independent and strong, then dont get into one, make yourself strong first, build up that love for yourself before you give your love to someone else. Real Men will understand and can see it, i see it, when a girl is good on her own, and you want to walk life with her and not carrying her. I believe most young girls now a days as well as guys looks for a relationship so the other people can carry them along, if your looking for that then its not going to last. The reason relationships dont last in this day of age is because everyone becomes so dependent on others, a feeling of wanted someone to hold you, there is no trust in this day of age, the nagging really has to stop, both ways guys and girls. Stop complaining about why the relationship didnt work & reflect on yourself, not blame the other person at all. Stand up & claim that it was your mistake and you will learn from it and get stronger and not make the mistake again. You can play all you want when you single, so why get into a relationship and cheat, if your still looking for fun then why not stay single until you are truly ready, dont play with hearts because Karma is a bitch, it will get you back. The worst type of pain is love, it hurts so much if your throwing your heart around everywhere when its not strong yet. Thats why the term “If you love them you can let them go” come because only the strong hearts can walk away from something they love and be ok knowing they do love them but it hurts too much to be with them, you have to walk away, its a part of life. I been thinking a lot lately about how my heart really grown through these years and i have grown, i know im ready for a relationship but im not going to rush into one because someone amazing will walk into my life and when i feel that connection i will take that leap of fate. Im not going to waste my time dating a girl who just wants a relationship to feel wanted because that will never last long period because she will always hold that “what if” thought in her head through the years and it will break down eventually. I rather someone who is sure of themselves, a strong independent woman ready to be with a man willing to give her the world if he could but gives her his love and knows thats the best gift of them all! Call me a hopeless romantic but true love is out there and i wont miss my opportunity. So dont rush into things just take your time, everyone goes at their own pace, so just because someone like me is single dont mean that i dont enjoy life, i love it! I do more crazy things than most people in this world, i dream big and is motivated. I am also an adrenaline junkie who enjoys life to the fullest, i feel i did so many things in my life most people only dream of, so i take my life as it goes. I also enjoy the little things in life, the conversations at home about random things, watching sports or movies with that other person, just random things, like i love cooking and being creative, video games is fun at times! Those moments where i realize i been given a bad hand in life and i made the best of it, i dont have everything in life, but the things i have are wonderful, i enjoy life and just enjoy these beautiful moments in life. Most people dont understand, life is the hardest thing, nothing is harder than living everyday so make the best of it and just live it. Dont compare how hard life is to anything because nothing compares to it, only thing is living. I love my life, where i have close to nothing but I ALWAYS BE MYSELF. I dont be fake ever, i always be my goofy personality and people look at me like is he serious, he isnt afraid to do those things in public, i dont put on an act. i just be true to myself. Thats what makes my life amazing because i accepted who i am and isnt scared to show the world who i am exactly, i am awesome in my mind and i know it, and people around me realize it as well because i say it so much about how awesome i am, people love that im always positive. I always look at the positive outlooks in life, so i enjoy my life more than others. People say they make bad decisions because their life sucks and they had it hard growing up, please thats just an excuse. All i had was my mom growing up too, she worked 3 jobs my whole life, my brothers and my sister looked out for each other, all my family dropped out of school in front of me and im the youngest, you think i gave up and followed in it, NO i finished school, i constantly overcome adversity, my brother and sister are doing good as well, even though they took a different path, hard work pays off, so dont think that your the only one who struggles in life, we all do, some choose to become stronger and some choose to keep themselves on the ground in the dirt and kick themselves lower. When you hit rock bottom, there is no where to go but up, i continue to struggle everyday but i enjoy the struggle because i love life, i dont think it should be wasted. So this is my thoughts on life, JUST LIVE IT & ENJOY IT!